Know the escort abbreviations

Many newcomers to the escort industry find its terminology confusing and, at times, overwhelming. Misunderstandings about commonly used abbreviations and phrases can create confusion and lead to unmet expectations.

For clients, having a clear understanding of an escort's services and boundaries is essential. Knowing in advance what an escort does and does not offer helps ensure compatibility and allows clients to make informed decisions. It also helps them determine whether a particular escort can provide the type of experience they are seeking.

Clear communication and mutual understanding are fundamental to creating a positive, enjoyable, and respectful experience for everyone involved. When expectations are established from the outset, both clients and escorts can interact with greater confidence and comfort.

We created this glossary for anyone who has come across escort-related abbreviations and acronyms and wondered what they mean. Even experienced escorts may encounter terms or service descriptions they are unfamiliar with. This guide is intended to provide clear explanations of common terminology, helping both clients and escorts better understand the language used within the industry.

Below is a very comprehensive list of services that a private escort may provide. Due to the comprehensive nature of this list, most ladies will provide some, but not all, of the services explained.

(in alphabetical order)

A

Anal play – refers to any kind of external play or penetration of the anus, either by use of finger, tongue, sex toys, or penis

Anal sex – penetration of the penis inside the anus, also referred to as greek ATM – ass to mouth. Involves acts such as giving oral sex immediately after receiving anal sex, or putting a finger or a vibrator in one’s mouth immediately after anal penetration

B

Bi twin - a double booking with two bisexual escorts BJ – blow job, oral sex BBBJ – bare back blow job. Giving unprotected oral sex to a man. BBBJTC - bare back blow job to completion BBW – big beautiful woman. A woman who is Rubenesque, voluptuous, curvy. BLS – balls licking and sucking B & D – bondage & discipline BDSM – bondage domination sadomasochism Bondage – sexual act that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner Brazilian – a form of bikini wax that removes the hair from the front, middle and rear of a woman’s pubic area. A “landing strip” is sometimes left at the front, others opt to have the hair completely removed BS – body slide. An escort seductively slides her naked body over yours

C

CBT – cock and ball torture – A BDSM sexual activity involving torture or pain affliction of the male genitals CD – cross dressing – a man who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes appropriate to the opposite sex CIM – cum in mouth – to ejaculate in the mouth CIMWS – cum in mouth with swallow. to ejaculate in the mouth and swallow the fluid CBJ – covered blow job, protected oral sex with a condom COB – cum on body. To ejaculate on a person’s body COF – cum on face, To ejaculate on a person’s face Cougar – a more mature woman seeking a sexual relationship with a younger man Costumes and role play – The wearing of fantasy outfits and assuming the roles of characters, to heighten sexual excitement. Such examples of fantasy costumes can be nurse, school girl, maid, secretary and mistress Couples – A couple in a relationship. An escort that includes “couples” in her services list means she provides a bisexual service to a couple

D

DATY – stands for Dining At The Y. Performing oral sex on a woman DATO – see rimming DFK – deep French kissing, tongue kissing Dinner companion – a social escort who accompanies you to dinner. May or may not provide sexual services Dirty talk – the practice of using graphic words to heighten sexual pleasure during intimacy DP – double penetration. Two men penetrate one woman with vaginal and anal sex DDP – double digit penetration. One finger in the vagina, and the other in the anus DT – deep throat. The technique of taking the entire length of a man’s penis in one’s mouth and giving oral sex Doggy style – a sexual position, where the man penetrates a woman from behind